Love & Relationships

“Shame is the intensely personal feeling that we are unworthy of love” – Brene Brown With all of the recent lunar activity, 2018 is proving to be a year of release and introspection. Being a universal year 2, it is a time to do the ‘inner work’ by identifying the nature of your most challenging emotions […]

Choosing chocolate is a matter of the heart. We find some flavors and textures much more alluring than others and it’s not just about the taste.  With sweet treats it’s all about how they make us feel … So of course your idea of chocolate heaven is going to be closely entwined with your personal […]

Hello everyone! Thank you for writing your relationship questions in the Facebook comments below last month’s column. I try to choose and answer questions that everyone can relate to. Even if your question wasn’t chosen, spirit guides give me messages that speak to more than one person, so there may be something written here that […]

Hello everyone! Welcome to your January love and relationship column, “Ask Jessica.” Thank you so much for sending your questions about relationship last month. Please feel free to do that again in the Facebook comments below this column. QUESTION: IS IT TIME TO MOVE ON? Jen writes: I have been with this guy for almost […]

Hi everyone! This is the very first edition of Ask Jessica, your love and relationships column.  I have been giving readings to clients on the topic of relationships for the last seven years. I’ve found that spirit guides always share uplifting, empowering messages that help to heal the fears and insecurities we all carry on the […]

“Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are” – Brene Brown True authenticity isn’t something that can be created.  Or developed, or grown or built build into your personality. Authenticity is the clearing out of obstructions. Unless you grew up on another […]

Many of us have heard of the Greek Goddess Aphrodite, also known by the Romans as Venus. She is a personification of love, desire, and beauty, and has always been one of my personal favorites among the goddesses. But Who is Aphrodite? According to Homer’s Illiad, Aphrodite was the daughter of Zeus and Dione. Yet […]

“Forgiving others is essential for spiritual growth” …So said the late, great Dr. Wayne W Dyer, and he knew a LOT about personal, spiritual growth and development. He knew that without forgiveness, spiritual growth doesn’t have a chance. Without forgiveness, we get stuck inside loops of repetition, blame, and self-sabotage. Without forgiveness, we’re still handing […]

Do you ever feel like an outsider? One of the most frequent sentiments I hear from clients is, “I feel like I don’t fit in.” They also say, “I’m still trying to find my place in the world.” If you’ve ever felt lost, misunderstood, or unsure about where you belong, you are not alone. Deep […]

As I have worked with clients over the years and through my own grief experiences, I have noticed a pattern in humans that makes the pain they suffer so much worse. While grief is a natural process and feeling grief and sorrow is natural and necessary after a loss, suffering is not. Dealing With Death […]

While you know you can’t change others, you can change yourself, which then changes the dynamics of all your relationships. I want you to understand that people can not really hurt you. They can only touch the hurt that is already inside of you. Knowing this can help you see your relationships with more compassion. […]

The World has become increasingly tumultuous leaving so many of us riddled with angst. But light can always be found in what seems like prevailing darkness. These benevolent forces surround you at all times no matter how heavy the dark clouds of loneliness feel. You have a Spirit Circle that surrounds you always. This collective […]

We all want to know why. Why didn’t that relationship work out? Why did I get cancer? Why do I keep repeating certain patterns? Why am I alone? There are a million and one answers to the question, “why?” and your mind will never really know for sure which one is the Absolute Truth, so […]

One of the most frequent messages I receive from spirit guides when doing a reading for someone on love and relationship is, “It’s safe for you to love.” None of us want to be hurt. And yet every single person on earth has been hurt in a relationship. Maybe someone you loved broke up with […]

Have you ever tried to “manifest” something using the law of attraction, but still didn’t get what you wanted? When it comes to achieving things, the human mind loves practical steps to follow. It’s a very enticing concept — that there could be “rules” or steps to obtain something, and if you just do what […]