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Have your relationships been in a funk lately? Maybe it’s your love life, maybe it’s your friends or family or even your boss … If you’ve been dealing with a little too much conflict with your connections in the past couple of months, I’ve got good news for you!
The (sometimes obstinant) planet Mars has been retrograde in the sign of Libra for the past 2 months. This can spell conflict, indecision and a general, rubbing-the-wrong-way feeling between loved ones. Thankfully, this irritating energy shifts on May 20th, 2014 (a 14/5 day).
What does this mean for you?
Here are a few pointers on how to use Mars Direct and the Number 5 to Activate all your relationships in the best ways possible.
1. Make a Decision
Now that Mars has gone direct, you will find it a lot easier to make decisions – about who you are spending time with and how you are spending time with them. If you’ve felt indecisive about a relationship in your life, this is the time to intend greater clarity, tune into what your higher self is telling you about the relationship, and then make a decision about how to move forward.
2. Fire Up Your Love Life!
Want to add some “heat” and passion to your love life? Now is the time with firey Mars finally going direct in Libra – the sign of equal balanced relationships. If your love life has felt more like a cool-off period these last couple of months, you can rest assured that hot action is now in your favor :)
3. Constructive use of Freedom
Since May 20, 2014 adds up to the number 5, you want to look at how to harness that 5-ness to your best advantage. One way is to make constructive use of freedom in all your relationships. And the only way to do this is to be honest … with yourself and with others. When you’re honest about how you feel with certain relationships, you can find constructive solutions for difficulties.
In short, this means respecting your own boundaries and the boundaries of others. The simplest way to do this is by communicating clearly what your needs are and then listening (without judging!) what your loved one(s) needs are.
You can disagree. You can feel differently. But what you don’t want to do is dishonor the freedom and right each of you has to feel, believe and set boundaries as you need to.
QUESTION: Have you felt indecision, a lack-lustre love-life or dishonored boundaries in the past couple of months? If you have, what have you done about it and which tip (above) will you give energy to next?
Let us know in the comments below!
Dawn & the Numerologist Team