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soul urge 2Your Soul Urge number, also known as your Heart’s Desire or Soul Desire, indicates what motivates you down deep into your core. This is the number that reveals to you what drives you from a soul-level.

This is a great number to know because it might explain some of those “irrational” thoughts and feelings you come up against – those feelings you just can’t explain, yet you feel with great intensity. How “surprising” they are to you will depend on how in alignment your Soul Urge number is with the rest of your Core Numbers.

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Soul Urge 2

You have a deep need to love, be loved, and bring harmony to discordant situations.

When you look deep into your soul, you have an underlying and pressing need to create harmony, balance, cooperation, and love wherever you go and in whatever you do.  Love is the cornerstone to your heart’s desire.  It’ll probably not come as a surprise to you that finding your perfect mate is important to you.

The number 2 is the number of partnership, so you seek successful and satisfying partnerships in life, whether it’s romantic, business, or friendship.  You’re here to learn how to develop your sense of relationship.  It’s all about how to successfully understand and relate to others and to yourself.

Understand that – like all aspects of Numerology – this is a goal and as the Soul Urge this can feel as though it’s an underlying drive that you can’t explain – even to yourself.  Yet also understand that you’ll also experience more focused and intense challenges on the path to mastering these particular aspects of your heart’s desire.

Your path includes developing diplomacy.  Your 2 Soul Urge encourages you to be of service to the “larger cause” – whether that’s your family, your company, or any other cause or group you feel strongly about.  Down deep, you have a strong impulse to develop adaptability, patience, and to focus on serving win/win scenarios within a group.

You thrive when you’re involved with other people and contributing to the group dynamics, whether it’s friends, work, family, or a community group.

Some of your internal struggles might include an incessant need for acknowledgment from everyone around you – and yet understand that you’re not likely to get it!  You’re learning how to be in the middle of conflicting situations (something you actually despise) and find common ground and winning situations.  It’s not easy. You’re also learning how to actually engage in groups and bring in your harmonizing presence without taking on everyone’s psychic garbage and emotional baggage.

You might walk a fine line with being passive or aggressive – indecisive or lacking focus – yet your calling is to become a peacemaker and harmonizing influence on whatever you touch.  Understand that you need to get out and socialize, because when you isolate yourself, you suffer from pessimism, depression, and inaction. You’ll be tested with being overly sensitive and can be confrontational rather than a harmonizer.  Basically, know that you’ll be challenged with the opposite of your calling – meaning, you can have trouble with relationships, be overly sensitive, and have trouble with compromise.

With the 2 as your Soul Urge, this might be something only you can see or feel.  Or alternately, you may “wear your heart on your sleeve” and show this more tender side of yourself more often than not.  It ultimately depends on the other numbers in your chart and how those energies mix and match with your harmonizing number 2.

About Felicia Bender, Ph.D

Felicia Bender Ph.D – The Practical Numerologist is the author of Redesign Your Life: Using Numerology To Create the Wildly Optimal You. She’s passionate about helping people use numerology as a tool to improve their everyday lives. She’s a contributor for The Elephant Journal, The Numinous, and is resident numerologist for See her at



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