So you’ve been “together” for a few months, maybe coming up to a year?
But let us guess, your SO (Significant Other) just isn’t taking the hints…
It may seem like a tiny thing, but that official label you put on your coupledom (or not) can mean e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g. Especially to the people who really like to know where they stand in love.
If defining your relationship is feeling like it’s out of the question right now, then it could be that the object of your affections is just battling with their Numerology. YEP, the numbers in their chart may well be the thing standing between you and relationship officialdom!
But this needn’t mean they (or your unrequited love) are a lost cause! You may simply need to work a little harder to unlock their true feelings. And get to that all-important relationship status, without scaring them off.
Sound a lot like your life right now?
**Wondering HOW the heck to find out their numerology? Simple put their deets into this free numerology calculator:
Now check out whether your SO has one of these three numbers in their numerology chart:
As the most independent of all the numbers, this one can be ridiculously hard to pin down! If you’ve been falling for a boy (or girl) with the 1 in their chart, then you may just need to put YOUR agenda on hold for a while longer…
In case you hadn’t realized, this numerology likes to be the one calling the shots. They’re all about being in control of every situation, and that means relationships too. So avoid putting any pressure on them whatsoever, to follow somebody else’s (i.e. your) rules.
While YOU know love a two-way thing, be sure to let your Number 1 lover think they’re steering the ship. Stroke their all-important ego by reminding them how amazing they are. Frequently! They’ll be more inclined to take those (subliminally planted) hints…
For this numerology, it’s all about being ahead of the game. So to pin down a Number 1, you’ve gotta either give them the independence they need, to fulfill that huge part of their being, or: BE the game!
And that depends on your numerology, as much as theirs…
ALSO READ: The Ultimate Guide to Dating a Life Path 1
This numerology is the most free-spirited of the bunch. Meaning Number 5s are rarely in a rush to get coupled up. In fact it’s more of a race to escape relationships!
These folks value liberty, leisure, travel, and a LOT of variety in life. Have you got space in your heart for these things too? Truthfully, if you’ve fallen for a Number 5, you’re unlikely to get the kind of commitment you dream about (if you’re a commitment kinda gal/guy). A better strategy – if this person is really the one for you – is to take it slow. Let your lover come and go, and be the rock they return to. That’s hoping they do return…
Alternatively, learn to be as free-spirited as they are! Transform yourself into their right-hand man (or woman) as they set of on one adventure after another. This means adopting an attitude of radical flexibility, and super-spontaneity. Are you game?
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Aaahhh Number 7, that tough old nut to crack. This numerology isn’t so much non-commital, as on a different wavelength completely. Do they even know you exist?!
Number 7s are the masters of mystery and deep, deep thinking. Often found on a philosophical journey of discovery, relationships don’t usually feature too highly on their priority list. NOT because they’re unloving, but because there’s SO much in the world to be thinking about!
Don’t be offended by their distance.
Likelihood is that your Number 7 love interest is reluctant to open up to you, because getting that vulnerable with anybody is like opening pandora’s box. And that would require just SO much headspace to figure out!
The good news is, that once the Number 7 falls, they fall hard. So if you ARE the right love match, you just need to stick around a little while longer for them to figure it out for themselves.
YOU MAY ALSO NEED TO READ: Achievement Number 7 – Numerology Reading
Need more relationship compatibility insight? Check out the links below:
- How to Calculate Your Relationship Number!
- Coupled Up or Happy Single? Your Ideal Relationship Status According to Your Soul Urge Number
- The Real Reason Your Relationships Keep Failing (& 5 Steps to Find True Lasting Love)
Now, join the conversation and let us know if you’re dating a Number 1, 5, or 7! Are they totally devoted? Or struggling to commit? How do you know? Drop a comment below!