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Is there balance in your relationships? Look at how you interact with your lover, your friends, family and colleagues. Do you take too much and not give enough? Or are you too giving, leading to exhaustion? How could this work better?
Do you stand on your own two feet as an independent adult or are you propped up by others? How can you increase your independence and decrease your reliance on someone else? This energy is about standing tall.
Do you have an open mind towards things you haven’t experienced or don’t understand? Or do you insist that only what you know can be real? This energy is about being brave enough to accept your intellectual limitations.
Do others love you and like you because of who you truly are, or because of who they think you are? How honest are you about your real self? Would you still have influence if you were true to yourself? How will you drop the mask?
Do you worry about yourself and your loved ones or do you worry about the wider world? Is there a way you can make a global difference while still caring for yourself and your family? Does it really have to be one or the other?
Does your rational mind rely too much on logic and fact? How can you take account of gut instincts, emotions and intuition, while still staying grounded and sensible? How can you bring more spirituality into your life?
Do you make it clear what you expect from others, or do you expect them to just “know”? If you don’t speak up, how can others know how to treat you? How can you make your voice stronger in your relationships with others?
Is there balance between how much support you offer to others versus how much support you receive? Do you take on too much responsibility and then regret it? Can you learn to say no, kindly and gently? How can you lessen your burden?
Do you tend to overlook inconvenient facts and awkward truths? Does your grasp of the bigger picture come at the expense of the day to day details? How can you take a closer look at life without losing your broad and philosophical vision?
Does your self-reliance sometimes make you too quick to judge those who are less self-reliant? Are you sometimes blind to the struggles of others or all too willing to dismiss someone else’s efforts? How can you exercise more kindness?
While you’re saving the world, who is saving your loved ones? Or you? Is your desire to make a difference over-riding your need to be there at home, present with your family, in your own circumstances? Can you manage to do both?
Do your emotions get the better of you, even in the face of reason and facts? Can you learn to be more logical, without losing your empathy and your sensitivity? What can you do to balance both sides of your brain better?