spa day 1You might notice after our recent full moon in freedom-loving Sagittarius in Mercury Retrograde, that how you relate to people is a BIG deal. Perhaps you are realizing that you need more time to yourself, or that you would like to have more energy to do the things you love. Well, that requires BOUNDARIES. If you want to say YES to more fun in your life, you need to say NO to what doesn’t benefit you.

What’s Going On With Your Emotions Right Now

During Mercury Retrograde, you’re processing emotions from your past. This is a good thing! This means that you’re clearing these stagnant feelings once and for all. Since Mercury is associated with how you communicate and it’s also in Gemini now (which is associated with how you relate to other people as well as learn new things), you might feel the need to PUT YOUR NEEDS AND FEELINGS FIRST. Your happiness is a priority – and it’s not going to come from pleasing everyone but yourself.

Most likely, you’re being aware of how you need to change these aspects of your life:

  • over-giving
  • feeling exhausted because you don’t have enough time for yourself
  • being drained after you help others
  • experiencing dramatic mood shifts
  • no longer wanting to please everyone (because you need to put yourself FIRST)
  • compassion fatigue

If you’ve been used to putting other needs ahead of your own, it can feel scary to change your behavior. You might feel that other people won’t be able to take care of themselves without your help. Or perhaps you fear you will no longer be loved by them.

TRUST these feelings inside of you. Your well-being benefits everyone. If you are happy – that will enhance the lives all of your loved ones. Here are four essential steps to maintaining good boundaries AND healthy relationships.

setting boundaries4 Ways To Maintain Good Boundaries & Healthy Relationships

1. Listen to your intuition

Your inner voice will let you know if something is right for you. If you’re intuition is telling you that you don’t feel like going somewhere, or doing something, HONOR that. You’re not helping anyone by being uncomfortable. Consequently, if your inner voice is telling you to do something for yourself – like take a class, change your diet, exercise or have FUN – listen to that too! You’ll be so glad you did.

2. Stay grounded in your body

Your body has a wisdom all its own. If you’re tired, rest more. If you feel dread about something, do something else. If you have an open and happy feeling about something – go toward that. Listen to your body because it speaks your mind!

3. Tune into your inner voice rather than others

Before making your decisions based on everyone else, take a moment to tune into what YOU want. Once you’re clear about what’s good for you, then you can negotiate how that will fit into other people’s plans. Only you know what’s good for you. Take time to listen.

4. Be direct instead of nice

If you are avoiding speaking your truth because you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings, or you want to avoid conflict, you’re only causing more trouble in the long run. People intuitively know if you are hiding something from them, and it only confuses people if you are hiding your feelings. Be clear and direct. The truth will set you free!

Make YOU A Priority

You will be amazed at how much happier you feel when you honor yourself and make your well-being a priority. You will see that not only are you happier, those around you are as well.

Use the remaining days of this marvelous Mercury Retrograde to make YOU a priority. Once Mercury goes direct again (on June 11th), you’ll be ready to go full speed ahead for a marvelous rest of the year.

About Kari Samuels

Kari Samuels is an Intuitive Numerologist and Happiness Coach who helps people world-wide align with their soul’s purpose and reclaim their natural spiritual gifts. Through her radio shows, online courses, and inspiring YouTube videos, Kari has taught thousands of people how to interpret the letters of their name and numbers in their birth date to heal their past, tune into their present, and decipher their destiny. Check out more of her awesome stuff at KariSamuels.com, where you can receive her free Numerology Guide to a Happy Life.

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