As I have worked with clients over the years and through my own grief experiences, I have noticed a pattern in humans that makes the pain they suffer so much worse. While grief is a natural process and feeling grief and sorrow is natural and necessary after a loss, suffering is not.
Dealing With Death & Loss
When my father passed away, I spend many days surrendering and healing and my healing guides showed me a way to shift the relationship by cutting the cords from this third dimension so we could start a new relationship that defies the barriers of the illusion of life and death we are used to.
Often we forget in the initial shock that our loved one is not ‘gone’; they now have a new form and, in fact, can have a deeper relationship with us than ever before. Once you’ve let the grief flow through, you can open the door to your heart and allow this new relationship to flow.
Crystal Grid For Grief
In the crystal grid I used Apache Tear which brings support in times of grief and for the emotions that accompany it. It accepts any negative feelings and transmutes them into positive beneficial vibes, holding a safe space for you to grieve.
This beautiful stone of protection wraps around your heart to give you the space you need to heal. If you feel hollow inside, it will protect that space until you can once again fill it with love.
The other stone is the Amethyst also dispels fear and anxiety and alleviates sadness and grief. It helps you to adjust to any loss you have suffered, absorbing pain and grief and offering spiritual protection and comfort.
Amethyst aligns you to your spirit guides and helpers. Helping you to also open your psychic senses and helping you, when the time is right, to communicate with a loved one who has moved on.
Place Amethyst on your third eye to open your inner sight and reach out to the other side. Your guides and helpers will assist if you ask them to.
Grief & Your Akashic Records
Commit to connect with your loved one, as you celebrate life and the moments lived always focusing on the present, on the moments that are to be lived with people around you. Savor every moment in life and know that the door to communication is open. You can strengthen this relationship at a spiritual level by setting a time daily to check in and communicate with your loved one.